R U OK?Day is Thursday 9 September. This year our message is: Are they really OK? Ask them today.
Do you know how the people in your world are really going? Life's ups and downs happen to all of us. So chances are someone you know might be struggling and your genuine support can make a difference, whatever they are facing, big or small.
There are so many different ways you can help encourage more life-changing conversations and share the message with your community while physically distancing.
COVID-SAFE WAYS TO SUPPORT R U OK?DAY
Host a digital event
Make use of technology that can bring people together online. People can bring their own treats and conversation starters to the virtual gathering. Register your event and we’ll send you a pack with posters, invitations and conversation tips to help make it a success. We also have virtual backgrounds you can download here.
Walk and talk
Where exercise is permitted, use the opportunity to go for a walk with someone, have a chat and ask "are you OK?"
The rules vary depending on location, so check the guidance from the health department in your state or territory before heading out for a workout while restrictions are in place.
Create an online 'Conversation Corner'
Create a team or group communication channel where you can regularly check in and ask one another, “are you OK?”. Share conversation tips and help-seeking information so people can confidently navigate a conversation where someone says they’re not OK.
Share information via email, social media and other online channels
Show the people in your world the power of connecting with others and that they’ve got what it takes to support those struggling with life.
By publishing a blog, vlog or social media post that shows the shows the power of connection and conversations, you’ll be able to make staying connected and asking “are you OK?” a part of their everyday. Templates and suggested posts can be found in the Guide to Supporting R U OK?Day.
Host a webinar or online discussion
Explore how people can stay connected, who might need asking R U OK? and how to find a meaningful moment to have a conversation with someone.
Conversation starter packs
Create your own ‘Conversation Starter Packs’ to send to attendees who will be beaming into your virtual event. Items such as an R U OK? mug, conversation cards and tea bags not only help people learn how to navigate a conversation but also helps sustain our work. Visit our online store here.
Conversation Quiz
A quiz is a great way to build people’s skills and confidence in having R U OK? conversations. Download our R U OK?Day quiz here and host yours online.
Connect to Chat
Connect to Chat is a virtual meeting, where people can come together and get to know one another a little bit better. This activity is great for larger groups or teams where you want to build stronger relationships between people who may not regularly see each other, but it can also be a great way to encourage smaller groups to connect. You can find a Connect to Chat activity sheet here.
Promise Wall
Start a thread on your internal communications platform where everyone can post their promise to stay connected and make asking, “are you OK?” part of their everyday. Encourage them to write down how they plan to put this into action. Download the Promise Card here.
While getting creative and organising your activities, it’s important to refer to official government information and guidelines to ensure you have COVID safe procedures in place.
R U OK? has released FREE resources to help you feel more confident asking friends and loved ones how they're really going. You can download the resources, including a guide to supporting R U OK?Day, a conversation guide, posters, social media tiles and more here.
If you or someone you know needs some extra support, visit our directory of national support and services here. For support at any time of day or night, call Lifeline on 13 11 14.
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R U OK? is an Australian suicide prevention charity and registered public health promotion that encourages people to stay connected and have conversations that can help others through difficult times.
R U OK? acknowledges Aboriginal and/or Torres Strait Islander peoples and communities as the traditional custodians of the land on which we live and work and pay our respects to elders past, present and emerging. We are an inclusive organisation and respect people of all backgrounds, genders, sexualities, cultures, bodies and abilities.
R U OK? is an Australian suicide prevention charity and registered public health promotion that encourages people to stay connected and have conversations that can help others through difficult times.
R U OK? acknowledges Aboriginal and/or Torres Strait Islander peoples and communities as the traditional custodians of the land on which we live and work and pay our respects to elders past, present and emerging. We are an inclusive organisation and respect people of all backgrounds, genders, sexualities, cultures, bodies and abilities.
R U OK? is an Australian suicide prevention charity and registered public health promotion that encourages people to stay connected and have conversations that can help others through difficult times.
R U OK? acknowledges Aboriginal and/or Torres Strait Islander peoples and communities as the traditional custodians of the land on which we live and work and pay our respects to elders past, present and emerging. We are an inclusive organisation and respect people of all backgrounds, genders, sexualities, cultures, bodies and abilities.